justalittlesnarky

Anti-Niche= good at many things, not an expert at any of them but having a great time all the same.

justalittlesnarky - Anti-Niche= good at many things, not an expert at any of them but having a great time all the same.

Back in the day- Molten vats of fruit

During the hot summers in Arizona growing up we would spend two days canning. Of course it was always the hottest days of the year. Giant pots of boiling water would start the process. Followed by what seemed like endless hours of peeling and prepping the fruit so it could be turned in to jam. The job that fell to me as the oldest child was to stir the jam as we cooked it with the sugar and pectin. I had to constantly stir the molten vat of fruit so it would not burn. We had access to pretty much unlimited supply of peaches so that was the most common one. We also would make apricot jam as well some years. But we canned all sorts of thing one year it was green tomatoes or my mom’s sauerkraut. She was the only one in the house that would eat it; there was no way that you would convince me that it was edible let alone good.

The day started early in the morning, we are talking like 6:00 am, with washing of all the jars and lids so that they could be sterilized with the first of many batches of boiling water. Then on to the sticky part, the prep of the fruit, we had to peel them and then slice them up so that we could start the process of cooking them. At first there were a lot of them that didn’t make it in to the pot. They would be eaten as we were cutting them up. Quickly that would not happen as much as we could not eat any more. Once they were prepped then it was my turn to stand at the over warm stove area to stir the pot full of fruit as the other pots with water started to boil for the final step of the process. I remember it being so hot in that small corner of our kitchen I just wanted to melt.

At first it was hard to stir the lumpy fruit but as it cooked down it got smoother. I could tell by how it looked that is was close to ready. My mom would add the final ingredients a few more spins with the spoon and my job was done for that batch. She and Grandma would fill the jars with the hot fruit mix slap the lids on them and then they would put them in the canning pot where they would boil in a water bath. This was when we would wash everything that was needed for the next batch. It was not unheard of for us to make 7 or 8 batches. I can still remember hearing the lids of the finished jars popping as they sealed themselves; it was the sound of a job well done.

I hated canning season, it was hot and sticky. But it was nice to have the jam in the winter as a small taste of summer when the days where short and overcast.

What prompted this trip down memory lane? Well in the last few weeks I have been doing a lot of thinking about how and where our food is sourced. And now things were different when I was a kid we were not dirt poor but we sure didn’t buy processed food it was all things that could feed a family of four more than one meal. Mom had a great freezer system as it turned out. She was what we now would call a stay at home mom, back then she was just a mom.

We ate locally grown food, some of it as local as the front yard. Not only did I unwittingly learn how to can, but I also have a general grasp of how to butcher beef and deer. Who knew that the stuff that I was “forced” to help with back in the day could actually come in handy moving forward with how I feed my family. Not that I am going to drag home a side of grass fed beef, but I may dabble in making my own ground beef someday. You just never know where life lessons come from.

 

Day 13- My Earliest Memories.

I would have to say that it would be the day that my brother was born. I was 4 I was left with my Grandma while my parents went to the hospital. It was a normal day with my Grandma until the phone call came. It was my father told my Grandma that it was a boy. She turned to me to tell me that I had a new brother. I was so upset that I burst in to tears and started crying .

“No, I want a sister take him back. I want a sister.” There was no way that I was going to be happy with this news.

It turns out that it was not so bad to have a little brother so I am guess I am glad they didn’t take him back.

Things change- Write on Edge

Rain is tapping at the windows as I try to get closer to the warmth that I am sharing the bed with. Lazily I run my hand over his bare chest feeling the combination of his thick chest hair and soft skin. I wiggle closer entwining my legs with his. His free hand caresses my shoulder, sending small waves through me. I just want to stay like this all day, wrapped in the smell of his skin, the sharing the warmth of this spot.


“I love you.” He kisses my forehead.

“To the moon?” I ask

“And back.” He kisses me again.

“I have not thought of that in a long time. I remember reading that book to Haley a million time when she was little.” He still caresses my shoulder.

“Yeah it was her favorite for a long time. I can’t believe that she is all grown up, heading off to college. Where did the time go?”

“I don’t know seems just like yesterday she was learning how read.” Pulling him closer to me trying to shield myself from the sadness that was creeping in.

This is what we do I know that. We have children raise them and then release them in to the world to be great. Part of me has been looking forward to this time for a while, but an even larger part is just plain sad. Haley will not be here every day to joke with she is my funny smart ass girl. I will miss all of the small things. This part of the job as parent is over we are now more of a support system and less of teacher and guide. She has to make her way in the world; we have done our part by giving her the tools now it is her turn to make something of them.

“Are you ok?” he asks as he rolls over to face me

“I am going to miss her that’s all.” Looking up in to his bright blue eyes, seeing the older version of the man I married all those years ago.

“I know, I will too. Who is going to do the dishes once she is at college?” he smiles at me.

That right there is why I love this man to the moon and back he makes me laugh. I pull him tight to my body and enjoy the last few moments together before the busy day starts. A perfect way to start a day.

 

Happy Birthday my way, damnit!

Today is my birthday, it should be a day to celebrate right. Well this year I really don’t feel like celebrating well to be honest I don’t feel like doing all the work that would be involved with celebrating my birthday.

 

If I had a party I would have to clean the house cook the food entertain the people. Well that brings up one issue with that is there is really on one to invite to said party so why bother with the cleaning and cooking right. My Best Friend lives on the east coast, my family is in Oregon and Arizona. Neither group travels very well. While you may feel that is very sad that poor Snarky has no friends.

 

The thing that really annoys me is that people won’t just let me be about not wanting to do anything. I have to explain repeatedly that I don’t want to do anything, that I don’t want to go anywhere for my birthday. It my damn day, it is right there in the “today is my birthday” my being the word that is the most important. Why can’t I pick doing nothing from the big list of options. But NO! Some how nothing is not an acceptable option.

 

Well that is just what I did, nothing special on MY special day and it was awesome. I had what I wanted for dinner and the kid made brownies for desert. So those of you who are bothered by my choice of nothing just back off and do something that you want to for your birthday, this one is mine.

 

Besides I had to work today so that killed what I really wanted to do, which was spend the whole day in my pj’s and nap a couple of times, so I went with this option.

 

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